tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3223973259436295282.post2206441793449587777..comments2022-12-03T07:02:07.632-08:00Comments on NwaVic: Dear NwaVic, I'm Torn Between Fiancé and SurgeonPrincess Rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17655731871159831670noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3223973259436295282.post-29531419900134753802012-10-16T09:50:30.635-07:002012-10-16T09:50:30.635-07:00Dear Nwavic, you hit the nail on the head. You sho...Dear Nwavic, you hit the nail on the head. You showed her all aspects that she prob hadn't thought about. <br /><br />Dear torn, this is truly being stuck between a rock and a hard place. I can say that a vacay while planning a wedding is a no-go. Going on vacay with someone else=cheating...there’s no way you'll go there and not do anything with him.....Plus you don’t want that type of karma on your head. If you do go, you're almost as guilty as him with his "friend" that likes him...plus this whole letting the friend down easy story is ridiculous. You'd need to stand your ground on that one- no matter what it takes because it'll go from her to someone else...and you'll spend your entire marriage letting people down easy. Who has energy and time for all that? Stand your ground and see how he handles it---that also might be a glimpse into what your marriage with this guy will be like. <br />You also mentioned that the surgeon guy shares your views on God. Does your fiancé share the same views? If not, that’s also something to think about.<br />I suggest you pray on this and ask God to show you the right way- you'd be surprised how He answers you. While I think the surgeon is a wonderful distraction for right now, you have to face the issue at hand- the fact that you may be marrying for the wrong reasons (keyword-may). <br />I think the advice above gave you tools to make a decision.<br /><br />Best of luck to you!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com